An Erlang dist cluster has no barriers between connected nodes. But a multithreaded application has no barriers between its threads either.
If someone can exploit one Erlang node, they can easily take over the cluster. But in a more typical horizontally scaled system, usually if they can get into one node, they can get into all the other nodes running the same software the same way.
Security wise, I think of the whole cluster as one unit. There's no meaningful way to separate it, so it's just one thing. Best not to let anyone in who can't be trusted, because either they have access or they don't; there's no limited access.
But given that, may as well push code updates over dist in a straight forward way, because it's possible, so it may as well be straight forward.