> Children aren't as good at information processing, but they are even more capable of suffering.
That is too strong a statement to just toss out there like that.
And I don’t even think it’s true.
I think children probably feel pain more intensely than adults.
But there are many more dimensions to suffering than pain. And many of those dimensions are beyond the ken of children.
Children will not know the suffering that comes from realizing that you have ruined a relationship that you value, and it was entirely your fault.
They will not know the kind of suffering that’s behind Imposter Syndrome after getting into MIT.
Or the suffering that comes from realizing that your heroin addiction will never be as good as the first time you shot up. Or that same heroin addict knowing that they are betraying their family, stealing their mother’s jewelry to pawn, and doing it anyway.
Or the suffering of a once-great athlete coming to terms with the fact that they are washed up and that life is over now.
Or the suffering behind their favorite band splitting up.
Or the suffering behind winning Silver at the Olympics.
Or the agony of childbirth.
Perhaps most importantly, one of the greatest sorrows of all: losing your own child.
Et cetera