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arnaudsm ◴[] No.41903559[source]
This is great for creating a media-garden for your children!

Kid content on YouTube and TikTok can be extremly disturbing, even for an adult. Until they turn 16 I intend to vet most media myself on a self-hosted server.

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spookie ◴[] No.41905227[source]
My parents never restricted me access, but talked with me openly about movies, games, or websites they saw me using/playing when they came to my room. I didn't take any precautions, or fear their reactions... because they were open about things with me.

Some discussions went pretty deep, others not really.

Moreover, they usually would spend time with us late evening watching interesting stuff. Given how open they were, me and siblings would ask about it too. They weren't the type that watched the most banal thing either.

I did end up visiting many strange websites. But the way they educated me never came second. I did start concerning myself with what I consumed.

Honestly it's better to open up, talk, keep up with what they watch but in a way that can be educative for them (i.e. question, discuss).

This is mostly things above 10 yo, granted. Before that I didn't have internet. But my friends did, and I did spend lots of time with friends.

My point is, it's better to confront with real life things sooner and have the time to talk. After 16 no one has time :)

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1. notachatbot123 ◴[] No.41912805[source]
How long ago was this? Modern apps are different from the websites of the past. They are designed to addict and driven by attention-steered algorithms, not curated by humans. It's a vastly different exposure and requires rethinking.