I hope it will not sound too preachy. You are right in a sense that it is what he thinks he is paying for, but is actually missing out on untapped value. He will not be able to discuss death as a concept throughout the lens of various authors. He will not wrestle with questions of cognition and its human limitations ( which amusingly is a relevant subject these days ). He will not learn anything. He is and will remain an adult child in adult daycare.
I could go on like this, but I won't. Each of us has a choice how we play the cards we are dealt.
I accept your point, but this point reinforces a perspective I heard from my accountant family member, who clearly can identify price, but has a hard time not equating it with value. I hesitate to use the word wrong, because it is pragmatic, but it is also rather wasteful ( if not outright dumb ).