I never went back. I found an older dentist and every patient in the office was a retiree, which made me feel confident they knew what they were doing (I'm sure they've got a lot of hard cases). I asked about the possible cavity and they said they saw nothing, everything is fine.
That's all just to say that the young dentists likely have a lot of debt between school and office build outs, and I wouldn't be surprised if they're up-selling services to try and get their practice out of it. I wouldn't trust them any more to be honest about practices just because they're young.
Highly capitalized, expensive leasehold improvements plus obscure pricing and surprise charges seem to be the typical playbook of that business model.
Reliable doctor-owned dental practices seem to be increasingly hard to find, at least here in the urban Southeastern US
It's frustrating but I agree that new builds or expensive locales seem to amplify this effect. Established shops in less fancy areas tend to leave me feeling much better and are almost always quicker while being more thorough.
Another part of the problem, as it has been described to me, is that so many dentists are perfectionists, and they find minor non-issues to be glaring. Like if I have a discoloured filling in a molar... is replacing it really warranted just for cosmetic purposes?
I will also add that, a visit to most dentists where you clarify up-front that you have no insurance can be a very different experience.
If the operation is owned/financed by venture capital, stay away. Their priority is obviously not health and wellbeing.
Why would a venture capitalist take over a dentistry or veterinary practice? (Unless it was a growth play, like One Medical)
it had clean new office and lots of fancy tech that to scan my teeth that i hadn't seen at my little hole-in-the-wall old dentist. i was optimistic.
they tell me that I needed four fillings and a root canal, and i was a surprised because i'd been going to a dentist every six months and nobody had mentioned anything like that. but hey, that must be the advantage of all those fancy scanners. right?
they walked me down to the "payment center" which was an office holding four employees whose job was to come up with payment plans to cover dental work. that's when i knew that the whole place was a racket.
I feel like as the years go by, more and more of my cognitive cycles are spent trying to avoid scams and predatory businesses.
It's not just the dentists that are perfectionists, but culturally perfect teeth is an expectation in a lot of the world now. I get it; a kid who's hesitant to smile because they're embarrassed with their teeth is heart-breaking, but it's also very expensive.
When they have something costly to do, they even say that if the dentist alone pays for their all their trip expenses.
I hired a service to help with my trees because an old try was dying. Each time they come out they send me a 'survey' only it's barely a survey with most of the focus on 'Do you want to tip for the services performed'.