The key here is that you don't care what happens when you don't win, you don't care how much other people win.
What you care about, is the expected amount you win, given that you have a winning ticket.
Let's say there are N players, and let's say anyone has a 1 in X independent chance to win.
If you don't buy a ticket, there are N/X expected winners.
If you do buy a ticket, it doesn't affect whether other people win or not.
There are still N/X expected other winners.
Your participation doesn't reduce the expected number of people, who are not yourself, that will win.
This isn't a Monty hall problem, because Monty Hall introduced new information.
Buying a ticket doesn't introduce new information.
With Prob of (X-1)/X, you lose, and go home unhappy.
With Prob of 1/X, you win. And now there are 1 + N winners.
Your buying a ticket therefore increased the overall expected number of winners by 1/X. That is correct.
Conditioned on you winning, there are 1+N expected winners.
Conditioned on you losing, there are N expected winners.