The original ANF is actually looser than this in that it permits anonymous functions as arguments. In practice, there is no canonical variant of ANF that people really refer to, but most people usually mean a variant of ANF that doesn't permit this (which, to my knowledge, was first published in David Tarditi's PhD thesis). See this table from Appel's "Modern Compiler Implementation in ML" for the comparisons made in the functional IR space: https://i.imgur.com/17nfGMI.png.
Usually what people in the functional compiler space mean when they mention ANF is some variant of ANF (with Tarditi's restriction) that retains nested functions in a tree-like structure. The tree structure is important because it practically necessitates the extension of "join point"s within the tree structure (to act as local, second-class, continuations: to avoid duplicating evaluation contexts for multi-way branching constructs, without using functions for this purpose). It just so happens that you hoist ANF into a bunch of function bodies (which were once nested) and blocks (which were once join points), you can easily construct a control flow graph. However, you could also say that lambda calculus would be "in SSA" throughout all of this (as it is originally, then normalised into ANF, and then hoisted into a control flow graph) - it just isn't usually what people mean when they talk about an SSA IR (they tend to imply the existence of specific provisions for the splitting of live ranges at join points, be it a phi-like pseudo-instruction or block arguments).
All this is to say that ANF is very tied to literature about the compilation of functional languages and its related analysis and comparison with CPS (such as whether it's closed under beta-reduction, for example), such that I think we need to be a bit more precise about the expected shape and properties of IRs to differentiate them, rather than just expecting compiler engineers to know what you're talking about - and, indeed, agree with your description - when you describe something as "an ANF language".