We need more email diversity.
Use your own email servers as often as you can. Monocultures of Apple/Google/MS is deterioration for the Internet.
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Sending and receiving as a wildcard alias is fantastic, and Fastmail allowing that was the reason I finally moved. I held out on that feature for a long time. (You can also do this in Exchange Online if you want to run a convoluted and officially unsupported configuration.)
I only twice had any kind of RBL issues, and one was a motivating factor in moving. I also got tired of worrying about patching and CVEs. I do that enough for my work.