Not everybody wants to sell their startup though. Accessing that liquidity without selling can be very very risky. Also, small companies like this can’t command big premiums because too much operational/institutional knowledge is held by the owners, so a lot of that “profit” is really more like a wage for the founder.
I’m in the infancy of a bootstrapped company while witnessing the general enshittification of all these formerly treated VC backed companies as they prepare for /adjust to being public companies. I also recall many decent products like Quora (yes there was a period where it was actually good) go to shit and fail chasing $$. I feel like the culture is shifting for new founders and a lot us want to aim for sustainable businesses that deliver real value rather than VC moonshots that say yes to everything that makes them more money.
I think “lifestyle” business carries negative connotations and bootstrapping/roof shots don’t capture this mindset yet. For me personally I guess it’s like, I’d rather have a $100m business that does cool shit and is focused on doing one thing, than be forced into chasing growth at all costs in all directions to get a potentially much bigger exit. If I had such an exit I’d draw it down at a sustainable rate anyway that ends up not being different from the earnings of a private company of similar value.
I guess with similar luck and results maybe I could be a billionaire instead of a hundred millionaire, but idk if that really matters, and I’d then get the typical SV meaningless ennui while being glad to leave the shitshow I created before it got even shitter. Running something I’m proud of for the long term seems like a more meaningful and rewarding way to spend my time and it can actually make the world better even if it doesn’t capture as much of that value.
Like, what if the dominant social media company had refused to serve ads and optimize for watch time? What if major cloud providers had a cohesive vision instead of cobbling together every stupid thing a $100mm spend customer wanted? What if YouTube could serve recommendations based on similarity/enjoyment? They could still be major successful companies. But selling your company, taking on investors, and maybe even lending against your equity threatens to destroy that.