Men, in general, really like having their genes carried on. Men, in general, really hate wondering if a child is theirs or not.
I don't see one being necessarily linked to the other. Murder and violence are "taboos" yet adults talk about them all the time. Especially in TV shows.
> Having sex is taboo because if women have sex with more than one man
I don't see the link. If having sex with multiple men was taboo, then discussing or having sex with a single man would not necessarily be taboo.
Your argument also seems to be about unprotected sex, the kind which can lead to kids. So is protected sex not taboo, then?
(not just human) Males need to be sure of paternity. Males who don't mind whose children they are raising aren't well selected for. This should be apparent to anyone who has ever watched a nature documentary. Humans are simply not that different.
I would love to see someone explain the link between taboos about sex and male paternity claims, but so far I see not a single (even dubious) reference from subject matter experts, so I will continue being skeptical about this claim.
"It's obvious!" doesn't convince me.
It seems like it should be a topic covered by Diamond's "Why is sex fun" but I can't remember an exact section devoted to taboos (nothing in the index etc.).