Am I the only one that has an issue with a VPN that I can't self host? Presumably if Tailscale get's PWN'd or subpoenaed then your network is breached no?
Depends on the kind of breach. Tailscale is extremely carefully designed to minimize that risk. Notably: Tailscale doesn't get your keys. (Granted: a compromised agent would still be a problem. It's a thing I have some plans for :-))
(Disclosure: I'm a (small) investor via Latacora's sibling fund, Lagomorphic.)