It's a shame that all of the X replacements on the horizon also ditch the network transparency part, even though that's been a killer feature for me. I hate how much of a hack Remote Desktop is on Windows machines.
I've used ssh -X many times in my life, but at the same time, I understand why network transparency doesn't make as much sense anymore.
Classically, the X protocol kept a huge amount of state on the server, and clients would just send small requests to manipulate that data. Drawing would take place server-side, and it was relatively simple drawing at that, since UI needs were fairly modest. Text rendering occurred on the server with small strings sent from the client. And overall, it made sense to send a small amount of data to produce a large amount of graphics.
These days, however, rendering occurs almost exclusively on a combination of the client and the GPU. Everything takes place via large memory buffers, and compositing. And pushing those over the wire doesn't work nearly as well; if you're going to do that, you need protocols designed for it, with compression and delta-encoding, much like modern video codecs (but optimized for remote-desktop).
So I think it makes sense that network transparency is being rethought, in favor of protocols that look a lot more like remote-video (and remote-audio).
Standard DLNA is easy to remember, however, as long as you know the terms--[file]server, renderer, and controller. It even uses http for the fileserver (not sure if that's part of the standard or not though)