Sqlite is a great bit of technology but sometimes I read articles like this and think, maybe they should have used postgres. I you don’t specifically need the “one file portability” aspect of sqlite, or its not embedded (in which case you shouldn’t have concurrency issues), Postgres is easy to get running and solves these problems.
Using postgres would make it significantly more complicated for Jellyfin users to install and set up Jellyfin. And then users would need to worry about migrating the databases when PostgreSQL has a major version upgrade. An embedded database like sqlite is a much better fit for something like Jellyfin.
As a Jellyfin user, this hasn’t been my experience. I needed to do a fair bit of work to make sure Jellyfin could access its database no matter which node it was scheduled onto and that no more than one instance ever accessed the database at the same time. Jellyfin by far required more work to setup maintainably than any of the other applications I run, and it is also easily the least reliable application. This isn’t all down to SQLite, but it’s all down to a similar set of assumptions (exactly one application instance interacting with state over a filesystem interface).