I tried DuckDB - liked it a lot - was ready to go further.
But found it to be a real hassle to help it understand the right number of threads and the amount of memory to use.
This led to lots of crashes. If you look at the projects github issues you will see many OOM out of memory errors.
And then there was some indexed bug that crashed seemingly unrelated to memory.
Life is too short for crashy database software so I reluctantly dropped it. I was disappointed because it was exactly what I was looking for.
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